How do you stop arguing in a relationship?
Maya N Asked: How do you stop arguing in a relationship?
I'm 20 and he's 21. We both really like each other and have been with each other since November. The thing is I overreact a lot and I get annoyed easily. I was like this with my ex boyfriend also though, so I'm starting to think that I'm the one with the problem. I hate arguing but I find myself being really stubborn and not wanting to let my guard down. I want our relationship to last and be healthy for as long as we're together. Besides a few arguments we love being together and have a lot of fun. The only guy I haven't argued with was my first love and I'm starting to wonder if the pain that I felt from losing of him is the reason I argue with every other guy. How do I stop the arguing though?
honey im 15 but believe me watch fireproof and then try the forty day challenge and it will probably come though and you will find more things that you like in eachother again.
Look at what you mainly arguing about. If your arguing about something that urrksss you and really bother you, let him know to not bring it up ever or your always going to argue over the same issue. You moved on from your first loss and keep it that way. Don't let troubles in your new relationship make you want to fall back in you previous ones. Big nono.
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