My mom wants to sleep with me ?

Joanna Asked: My mom wants to sleep with me ?

THIS IS NON SEXUAL !!!!!!!!!!!

Ever since me and my sister were babies we sometimes slept next to our mom on the same bed
My mom is divorced and she has had boyfriends and of course would be in the same bed with them but recently my moms last boyfriend dumped her 3 years ago so I can see she feels lonely with no husband or boyfriend to cuddle with.
Its hard to explain this situation cuz this is also very embaressing too
My sister is 23 and im 21 now, and we have our own rooms and we are healthy adults loving our privacy being alone in our rooms like any other adult girl
(our mom has her own room too btw)
but these days my mom would come and ask me and my sister every ******* single night if she can sleep with me or her cuz she says she doesnt want to be "alone"
I always say "i dont want to sleep with anybody, can i have my own room in peace? im 21 who does that????? (my sister saysthe same thing)
believe mei let her be my sleeping buddy every now and then but its not working out. I had enough. She snors and makes that clicking soundits disturbing and im not happy so i get up and sleep on the couch or her unoccupied room

its very frustrating that my mom takes it the wrong way and she gets mad and says to us
"what kind of daughters do i have? u two dont love me. I worked hard(job)to make u two happy with the things u want etc. etc. etc. (she bitches ALOT )

I told her she needs a boyfriend and husband hopefully to stop being so needy ugh!!!! she says shes too old no one will want her she afraid to get heart broken.

I dont know any other way to convince her to stop taking it the wrong way when she asks to sleep in my bed with me
I want her to understand im an adult now

I wish I can move out and live on my own but my mom always plays the guilt card on me and finding the right place requires me to work a fulltime job i only have part time
( not alot of money i make in this shitty economy)